LIVE LOVE LAUGH AND BE HAPPY

--> As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it’s harder every time. You’ll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You’ll fight with your best friend. You’ll blame a new love for things an old one did. You’ll cry because time is passing too fast, and you’ll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upsetis a minute of happiness you’ll never get back xxx LIVE, LOVE LAUGH AND BE HAPPY

What is a Soul Mate?

"Soul Mate" Two little words. ONE big concept. A belief that someone, somewhere, is holding the key to your heart and your dream house. All you have to do is find them. So where is this person? And if u loved someone and it didnt work out, does that mean they weren't your Soul Mate?? I was reading the book Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert, for thousand times over and over again and it really fascinated me. People think your soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true Soul Mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is actually holding you back from being you, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true Soul Mate is probably the most important person you will ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake even if you dont want. I personally believe we meet more than one Soul Mate in our lives and they aren't always love interests. But I ask myself, what makes a Soul Mate? I have always thought that everyone you meet in life has something to teach you, or something you can learn from.... What gives certain people the status of a Soul Mate? I always ask myself hmmmmmmmm..... I am sure and is without a doubt that my Ex Boyfriend has been a Soul Mate. He saw in me things I knew I needed to change about myself and mirrored the worst I have in such a scary way and showed me that the truth is a painful reality. I became my own worst enemy. Each mirror reflected a piece I didn't like or want to show and i didnt want to see. I was a mess, and i didnt want to see that we were not meant to be. I could not handle his honesty as he quietly mirrored my self everyday. The Book Eat, Pray, Love really attached me. To know that it is OK. That Soul Mates come and go because that's what they're meant to do. To show you the way, and then leave, so you can take it from there. It showed me what i already intuitively know. That the Ex was exactly the right person at the right time, but that doesn't meant he's right for me. Are we meant to go from Soul Mate to Soul Mate with no lasting union? According to the book, it is "too painful" to stay with Soul Mates. And that's why relationships end. But what if your mirrors become less painful? What if your inner light shines out and reflects beauty that can't be matched? hmmmmm.. Can a Soul Mate union survive then? I'd like to think so... i really like... and i hope so... I kiss you all and wish you all good luck in searching of your own, personal Soul Mate mwahhh RayRay

What is Love and what do we want in Life?????

It takes a lot to know what is love. It's not the big things but the little things that can mean enough. I’ve met a man long time ago and fallen in love with him. I allowed myself to fall in love for one simple reason: I didnt expect anything to come out of it. I kinda always knew we were not meant to be and in few months time, I’ll be far away and he’ll be just a memory, but I couldn’t stand living without love any longer, I had reached my limit… Im learning that not everyone is meant to love us the way want to be loved, not everyone is meant to understand us, approve of us, or join us on our journeys, not everybody can go where we are going. If we are desperate, if we have nothing to lose, or if we are full of enthusiasm for life our universe changes directions. We give up so much to become the person we think we want to be, but do we ever really become that person? Do we ever really get the life that we want? Or is life just one big journey, where we constantly sacrifice and muddle through in the hopes of eventually getting somewhere that looks (and feels) pretty good? I think that it's both: eventually we get there, but it usually doesn't look like we thought it would. And then there are always those paths that we take that lead our life in an totally new direction, totally losing our sense of who we are and what we think we can be. But then again, that's life too, and part of what makes it worthwhile as well as i always say live love laugh and be happy and u will be loved forever..... xxx R.